Self Love Is Key

Lifestyle

Self Love is Key

Your relationship with yourself is the most important relationship you will ever have. Too many of us neglect our needs and desires and speak too critically about our bodies or talents. This shows up in our energy and how we care for ourselves.

We all know people that truly do have unconditional love for themselves, not in a selfish “I am so great kind of way,” but just truly know who and what they are. They realize it is important to meet their needs in order to serve others.

They invest in their own well being so they are happy, radiant, exude charisma and are unapologetically themselves.  They go for massages, pedicures, transformational retreats and trainings, and indulge in vacations and hour-long soaks in the tub with candles, music, and bath salts. They know this kind of self-love is key.

They may hear the voice of the inner critic jump out, but they have learned to tame that voice and do what is necessary to have mental, emotional, spiritual and physical health and wellbeing. We all have to learn to navigate that critic, the voice of doubt, unworthiness and fear; the voice that tells us we’re not good enough.

Very often, we as women buy into the perceived fear of failure and rejection when we put ourselves out there. And yet, there are thousands of women — just like you — who are claiming the spotlight and answering the sacred call to lead with heart.

They lead themselves, their families, their tribe.

What is a one of the primary keys that makes them successful?

A consistent self-love practice.

We all need one.

When we carry the belief, deep down, that we are unworthy of love, attention, and success, this is the energy we put out into the Universe.

This is not something that you can fake either. We, as women. are intuitive beings, and we always know when someone isn’t being true to themselves. You’re either willing to embrace yourself, ‘imperfections’ and all, or you’re not! This is not an overnight process, of course, but one of the best investments you’ll ever make is in your own joy and abundance.

If we have to give up one really bad habit, it should be to disconnect from the belief that we are unworthy.

Think about it, if we truly loved ourselves fully and unconditionally, we would know that we could live the life and have the things that we deeply want. It all starts with us, and cleaning up the way we that think and speak about ourselves.

Only we can change our circumstances.

If your ready then try some of these and watch for change.

One of the most significant things we can do to bring change is to simply forgive ourselves. We are not our past mistakes.

The next is journal. When those feelings of unworthiness or self doubt creep in, write down what was occurring at the time and watch for patterns. Speak to yourself with affirmations. They really do work. The frequency of the words changes your energy which changes your circumstances.

Please remember this, always:

“I am worthy and deserving of all I desire”. 

This is a simple yet powerful affirmation. It is perfect for the energies we are in.

0 Comments

Submit a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Recent Posts

March Full Moon Partial Eclipse

March Full Moon Partial Eclipse!   Tuesday (3/19) was the first day of spring. That gets a BIG HOORAY from me. It was sunny and in the 60’s here so I made sure to get out and enjoy it. I hope you did too.     March is also bringing you the Full Worm...

Ignite Your Inner Fire!

Ignite Your Inner Fire!   As the Earth dances along on its celestial journey around the sun, you find yourself approaching an anticipated cosmic event, the Spring Equinox. I don’t know about you but I am soooo ready for this. In the Pacific NW it arrives at...

Healing Journey

Healing Journey!   You have desires, places to go, and people to see, but sometimes your health holds you back.   Here are some simple steps to help you heal your body and live a life you could love.   • Choose Health: You have the power to choose...

Embracing Self-Care and Healing o Valentine’s Day

Embracing Self-Care and Healing o Valentine's Day!   As a part of the High Vibe Healing Tribe, you understand the profound importance of love and self-care in your journey towards healing and growth. Valentine's Day provides a unique opportunity for you to deepen...

We All Need It!

We All Need It!   February is a great month to bring a little love and grace into the mix. When you're feeling out of sorts and you know you’re not being the most patient, gracious version of yourself just add 5 drops of this Gracious blend to your diffuser....

It’s Up To You

It's Up To You!   Are you tired of just wishing for a different life?   Are you ready to take that bold leap towards meaningful transformation?   Willingness is the key that unlocks the door to change, but it's only the first step. It's time to turn...

Howling At The Moon

Howling At The Moon!   You are just beginning to experience the pre energies of the Full Wolf Moon, This lunation holds great significance in the realm of energy and spirituality, inviting you to embark on a profound journey of self-discovery and transformation....

Life’s Transitions and a Drawing

Life's Transitions and a Drawing!   In the realm where independence was once your battle cry, you may find yourself retreating, not by choice, but by circumstance. Everything is changing so rapidly that self adjustment is often hard to keep up with.   You...